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Many women find it hard to reach climax during sexual intercourse and might feel like there is something wrong with them, or that having orgasms is not a reality for them. However, using a dildo is a great way to increase pleasure for both partners, and ensure that sex feels good for everyone.



Some women may want to buy a dildo and see how it feels for them but are a little bit nervous about asking their male partners to incorporate a sex toy into their play. What women should know is that men often love to use dildos on their partners, or watch them use them on themselves, which is a huge turn on.



Been thinking about purchasing a dildo at Friller.com.au, but are still a little unsure of how to use it?

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We have listed four ways that a dildo (both vibrating and non-vibrating dildos) can help you take your sexual pleasure to the next level. Friller sex toys are available on afterpay. Order of $100 or more ship with free express within Australia. Shipments are sent directly to you from our Adelaide warehouse which ensures for a smooth and fun purchasing experience for you.



1. Clitoral stimulation


Dildos come in a wide variety of shapes and sizes, with many especially suited to the task of stimulating the clitoris. Vibrating dildos are best for this particular form of stimulation, especially those that are bullet shaped, u-shaped or the ever so popular rabbit shape are all dildos targeting vibrations in the clitoral area making you feel extremely aroused. These can be used in an array of sex positions so that your partner can enter you while you use the dildo on yourself (or they might like to do it for you). The options are endless, and once you try this technique, you will be asking more.



2. Double penetration


Dildos are an excellent way to experience the sensation of being penetrated twice with a single sexual partner, and many women find this to be an effective way to reach climax. Some women love the feeling of vaginal and anal penetration at the same time, but like the comfort of having just one person inside them. Some other women may have never tried this style of intercourse before but would like to see how it feels. Dildos come in different sizes so that you can scale to your desire and comfort, and heighten your sexual pleasure.



3. Anal sex


Have you been thinking about anal sex, but are not sure where to start? It can be a good idea, to begin with, a dildo to build up to the sensation of skin on skin penetration. At first, being penetrated anally can be an intense sensation for women, and starting with a small size dildo can help you to feel comfortable and relaxed, while gradually stretching the tissue in this area. It is not uncommon for women to find this form of sexual intercourse very arousing and gratifying, so long as you apply the right methods. You need to prepare adequately else; you might find it painful. Use some lubricant and your dildo to get a feel for the sensation and see if you might like to progress this further with your partner.



4. Imaginary threesome


Suction cup dildos are a type of dildo specifically designed to adhere to a flat surface like a headboard or a mirror. An excellent tool for role-playing an imaginary threesome with your partner. Maybe this is something you have both fantasised about. But not too keen on including another person in your play.



You can suction the dildo to your desired surface, and use it to imagine someone is penetrating you from behind while you perform oral sex on your partner. This style of conceived play is often very arousing for women, and a great way to bring them to orgasm.





Dildos are an excellent method for setting the mood and dialling the sexual energy up to the next level between you and your partner. The four suggested methods mentioned above are just a few of the ways you can use your new dildo. Remember, sex is about feeling suitable for both men and women.


So don't be afraid to be open with your partner and get creative about the different ways you might experiment with your new toy. Moreover, you don't need to stop at one: different dildos are suitable for different things, so why not fill your toolbox with a range of fun toys!

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